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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not about the orgasm!
The sad reality is that most DWs (esp those with kids!) do not really think about sex very often. 
This is basic biology/hormones, it has nothing to do with her DH.
On those rare occasion that sex crosses her mind, it is quickly pushed aside by some perceived offense committed by her DH several days ago.

The article is an excellent depiction of this issue, with some very good recommended solutions. Read the link, people!

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/ss/50-1.html[/quote]

This is exactly the same article, but on a different website...what gives?[/quote]

A little too much promotion for a lousy article that assigns blame to women.  It's like blaming someone for their personal dislike of certain foods or sports. It's as simple as that. [/quote]

It actually does not assign the blame to women.  It absolutely, completely assigns the blame to her husband, saying that it is his job to get her in a place where she feels interested in sex, and that he needs to figure out what to do to make that happen, since he is the one interested in (more frequent) sex.  The only way I would see that it could blame women is that the letter writer, "mary," does not seem to share any of this information with her husband.  
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It's not his job either nor is he to blame if she doesn't rate sex #1 in her book. Not my husbands fault because I can't stand Mexican food.  We all have like and dislikes, it's part of being a person. Neither is right or wrong. [/quote]

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