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[quote=Anonymous]I see there's some very bitter people on here.

Kids are not more important per se.  In a good situation, everyone would work together to make sure the kids have what they need.  That would include step parents.

Too often though, one parent or the other is busy trying to punish their ex, using the kids.  Or figuring out how to make the ex pay financially and emotionally.

Step parents can play a very important role in their kids' lives.  This whole attitude of "it's none of your business if you're the second wife" is ridiculous.

By the way, what about the new husband?  If he's the higher earner in the marriage does he have a say how money is spent?  Is he contributing to the kids' upbringing?  Or is it only the step mother who is to be punished for the entirety of her marriage?

I have a friend whose step kids could be facing an absolutely devastating change in their lives.  Their mother is fighting cancer, and not doing well.  It could very well be that they will be living with dad and step mom full time.  (Right now it's 50/50).  If my friend were to take the attitude that the kids were none of her business, how would this be handled?[/quote]

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