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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Considerably, but not for a negative reason. I'm one of the younger in my generation in my family so I have watched siblings and cousins join families that were nightmares. Then I have a couple who got married and the two families get along and can spend time together and it has alleviated a lot of holiday stress. I decided my goal was to marry someone who's family I felt I could be a part of and that I could invite into my family as well.[/quote] This was my goal. I vetted the family. I loved them. Still do. But the claws came out after we were married, and it gave me major anxiety. On top of that, inexplicably, things got messy on my family side as well, infighting and just bad behavior that made me hesitant to combine them with my in-laws. Oh well. I guess life always have a suprise in store for us. But just to say, its not as predictable as we might like. [/quote]
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