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[quote=Anonymous]I had an offer similar as a young, single mom.

Not tuition though.   Financial security for my son and I, travel opportunities and I don't recall what else.  In return I would live with this guy, and help him with his teenaged kids.  I would also be responsible for all house related duties (shopping, cooking, cleaning) but he would control the money.  I would have an amount to spend on household needs and when that was gone it was gone.  I could work as long as it didn't interfere with keeping the house clean, meals made on time.  He would pay for daycare for my son as long as I kept the house up.  If I couldn't do both I had to quit.

Once both of his teenagers were finished high school I could leave if I wished.

When he proposed this I added up bedroom space.  It was a little short for all of us.  He would build a room for my son.  So I was to sleep where?  Yup.. with him.

I said no.  The finances were SO tempting.  I had just come out of a bad marriage.  Controlling spouse but with no money.  We lived on welfare.

I stayed on welfare for a few more years but despite that I kept my self respect.

The real kicker for me?  He knew my parents.  He showed up at their house (Ds and I were living there) and explained his proposal to them. Leaving out the unspoken sleeping arrangements. They thought it was a good idea.  I was... baffled.  Shocked.  Disgusted.  I remember saying "Dad.. there aren't enough bedrooms.."  When I said I was absolutely not okay with that, they dropped it.[/quote]

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