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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, what age are you that you prefer someone younger than mid 30s?  Cause im not having much trouble finding dates.[/quote]

30yo woman. Prefer to date 27-34, someone I could've attended HS with. I date older sometimes, but I prefer guys who wanted to settle down sooner in life. Single women 35+ usually are because there are so many men their ages who are still exhibiting frat boy like behavior and sleeping around, not the other way around. I'd rather the guy who was commitment minded alot sooner in life. I've primarily attracted younger men the past few years, particularly 2-3 years younger and I wish I'd been more open-minded sooner. I still date men ages 35-38, but I'd rather a divorced guy in that category. Someone who is just starting to think about settling down at that age is usually incompatible for me. Most of the married guys I know that I consider good guys closed the deal in their 20s and early 30s. I'm sure there are older guys who are fine too, but I usually find myself thinking "Yeah, no wonder he is still single" after dates with older, never married guys.

I don't doubt you're having few problems finding dates. There's a lid for every pot.[/quote]

Nice spin.  Single women 35 plus are still single because of the men?  Um, no.  Theyre single generally because they fucked up when they were most attractive.  In college, they didnt get locked down.  In grad school, they didnt get locked down.  Theres a reason for that.  Maybe they wanted to be sluts for badboys, maybe they were focused on "career", maybe theyre just not that attractive.  But its probably that they werent "ready" to commit when lots of guys were interested.

In my case, i changed careers (for the better) at about 30.  So i wasnt really looking for settling down until recently.  Thats not all i'm looking for, but certainly open to it.  And i am probably going to be more open to it than most guys in their late 20s.  Plus i went to a combined junior/senior hs.[/quote]

Every single desirable man that I knew since elementary school was married by 35. [/quote]

Every single desirable woman that I know was engaged or married by 30.  What's your point?[/quote]

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