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[quote=Anonymous]I need to read back on a lot of the comments but a lot of them sounded judgmental so I'm assuming they are from wives of married men that have had affairs?  That being said.. I'm single and actively having affairs with 3 different married men for 3 very different reasons.

1)  can't discuss circumstances because of his job but as far as I know he is relatively happy in his marriage of 15+ years with 2 children.  We don't discuss his wife.  We are friends.  We just happen to have sex because he's never been with a foreign woman before and I fulfill that role for him.

2)  another one difficult to discuss because of his circumstances.  He's been on the divorce track for 2 years now but the proceedings have stalled 4 times over custody of their child.  Unfortunately for him they live in VA and the state favors women.  Also unfortunate for him his wifes family is rich and is prepared to bankrupt him.  I have been his first affair.  We have never successfully had intercourse because his wife has torn his self esteem apart so much he suffers from sexual anxiety so I play with him a lot and talk to him.  I'm hoping when he does divorce he will be able to move on with some woman someday that is better for him.

3)  yet another difficult to discuss but he's a sexual dominant (not BDSM just dominant) and his wife does not enjoy sex.  He said she acts though it is painful and rushes him to finish.  He was not her first and I suggested that there was a possibility she was abused and he agreed but said she refuses to discuss it.  I continue to talk to him about discussing therapy but it is hard cause culturally speaking therapy is frowned upon.  I chose him because we are sexually compatible and have developed a friendship.

Of the 3 men I only have feelings for one of them... the first one.  I do not have low self esteem. I'm an independent woman that people actually look towards as an inspiration and motivation for my accomplishments.  I happen to enjoy sex and don't want the commitment that goes along with dating.  If there is anything wrong with me I would say I have commitment issues.  [/quote]

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