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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Female sexuality is pretty nuanced. I do not want a super manly man, yet I do not want a man that has been with men. I also have a thing for repressed men--so I realize I run a huge risk of encountering a guy that has done this.[/quote]

So, make sure you put that out there. The threads on this make clear that many men are doing this and even more are not telling their wives. Many also seem to think that there is nothing wrong with the behavior. They consider themselves straight. The definition of straight is exclusive sexual activity with the opposite sex, but this definition seems to escape them. Not sure why. So, they don't feel like it is an issue and are "shocked" that people would expect them to tell their wives. That being the case, single ladies, make sure you glean from your date whether or not he's had sex with another male if that would be a problem for you. You cannot assume that his dating you and even him telling you that he's straight means that he has not had sexual contact with another male. You just need to flat out ask, hey have you ever had sex with another male. Don't even bother asking him if he's straight. Word meanings don't phase these guys. I like all different types of men- manly guys, softer big teddy bear types, etc... I just do not want anyone who has ever had a same sex experience. I'd be okay with a male who also could not date me for whatever reasons. There is someone for everyone is the good news.[/quote]

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