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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It wasn't until a PP laid out the whole "why would a gay guy be trying to sleep with a woman" point that I realized he was saying what is pertinent here.  If you're "in the closet" and gay, you don't tell people you had experiences with men in the past.  You sure as hell don't admit to gay sex and then force yourself to marry a woman.  Once you've told someone that you've had sex with a man, you're okay to go pursue men.  It makes no sense that a truly gay man would be in this situation.

I a personal case in point.

My stupid sister dumped a guy because he admitted (after a few drinks) that when he was in college he had a roommate that was gay and he would let him give him head when he was in a dry spell with girls.  Needless to say, my sister flipped out and called him gay and broke off the year long relationship.  She could not be with a man who was secretly gay she said.  Our entire family (so embarrassing to him, right?) tried to tell her that he wasn't "secretly gay" and that he had admitted to what he did.  Part of the reason we were fighting for him was because he had already told us he was planning to ask her to marry him that spring.  My dad and mom were a little weirded out about the admission of her boyfriend, but were wililng to forgive him.  After all, he was in love with a girl that was their daughter.  The past didn't matter said my parents (my mom was married before may parents got together and she has always felt shameful about it, but my dad never really cared). My sister wouldn't budge - like the rest of you, she swore she wouldn't waste her time with some closeted fag.

Fast forward two month from the big gay breakup.  My sister gets in an altercation with one of her close friends at bar in Arlington because said friend was escorted to the bar by the "closeted gay" exboyfriend.  Turns out that his gayness of his one college semester hadn't reemerged from hiding and he pursued yet another female.  My sister for some reason really thought he was gay because of that one semester.  He's not gay.  He's now married to that friend with child #2 expected any day now.

a lot of you are dumb like my sister.  [/quote]

I broke up with and did not accept the invite to marry an ex BF who had affairs with men.  He married and I heard still has had homosexual relationships.  Maybe the wife doesn't care.  PP's sister did care and now is available to meet hetero as I did.   Everyone is different and some prefer hetero only.  That doesn't make her stupid.  She has every right to choose her partners.   The sisters ex also had the option of meeting a woman or man who didn't care about past homosexual relationships.

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+1. We're talking about people's rights to chose their partners. If you're okay with someone who's had same sex partners, go for it. Some people are not. I would also not be okay with someone who has had excessive partners in the past or was a serial cheater or was a drug addict or did other deviant things. Some people don't care. Get with those people all day every day. But leave me alone![/quote]

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