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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm still trying to figure out why a gay guy would be trying to marry women and sleep with them.  It would just complicate his gay life.  Will someone please explain to me why a truly gay man would seek out women to marry and have sex with.  Nobody has yet to explain that to me. [/quote]

At the risk of sounding redundant, just because a man has had an isolated involvement or two with another guy does not make him gay. He may have done so out of a myriad of reasons: being intoxicated, wanting to experiment, being genuinely attracted to a guy, going through a dry period with women, etc. If you are of the mindset that any same sex involvement is indicative of being permanently gay, then you will not neither understand or accept what I am saying.

It is rare for a guy who is gay to get married especially in today's environment where the stigma to being gay is less of a factor. It happens but it is a rarity. [/quote]
This thread alone is a testimony that many gay men get married to women. They just hide the behavior and from these thread some actually believe they are straight. This is why there is the label of "men sleeping with men" or MSM. These men are homosexual, but don't want the stigma of the lifestyle. They also have some attraction for women. This population of men is largely responsible for the spike in HIV in married woman. These leeches are actually everyone's problem because they create an environment of shame and secrecy for their gay lovers all the while leading a double life that deceives their female partners. Newsflash MSMers- your contact with males is homosexual so you are not straight. The question is why it so important to maintain the straight label. At least have the dignity to share your identity with your spouse.[/quote]

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