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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I’m somewhat confused- did he say he would end the relationship even if married or did he say he would end the relationship if you were dating.

If it’s the latter I don’t see what could possibly be wrong with that? You are dating, biological children are important to him, and you wouldn’t be able to provide them for him. I understand that it feels bad but if you love the guy would you also want to foreclose the possibility of children to him- something that he has expressed is very important to him? If anything the ability to clearly articulate what he wants is a greenish flag for future communication patterns.

When I was dating my now-wife I told her I wanted kids and she said she was unsure and I made it clear that if she didn’t want kids we probably didn’t have a future. She also got slightly annoyed at me about that but this is just a really, really important part of life. Being on the same page in terms of what you want is important.

Now if he said if you found out after getting married he’d end the relationship, yeah, he’s a scumbag and you should dump him. There’s a whole laundry list of things that can go wrong in life and sometimes things you really want don’t work out. [/quote]
Are you dense? How will they find out if she’s infertile until they’re married and trying?[/quote]

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