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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life happens. Do what it takes to get them on board. Go to therapy. Get her a horse. They may thank you for saving their lives with the move one day. [/quote] +100 to getting therapy. Get the 15 yr old solo sessions and get a few sessions of family therapy to work out all the feelings. And then do your homework ahead of time for her school in Spain, find out how they make new students feel welcome. HS is hard enough, all the kids at her school will have probably had a year already to get to know each other (if their system is similar to ours), and so your DD will not only be The New Kid, but a new kid who didn't grow up there. It may be triply traumatic. Have supports and resources ready there so she doesn't have to figure everything out on her own, since honestly you and your DH are probably not going to have a lot of idea how to support her because you didn't even think this would be a big deal before you decided.[/quote]
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