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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m curious to hear why women broke up with you in the past. I don’t think you’ve answered that yet.

But, your biggest issue is the no kids thing. Most women want kids. It’s not a good idea to have them if you don’t want them, but you’ll likely have to stick to dating women who already have older kids and don’t want more.

I’m guessing that right now you’re dating mostly mid-late 30s women, and those women are on a time crunch to get married and have kids. If you don’t want them, they’re going to reject you pretty early on. [/quote]

If they break up with me early on: not feeling it; not feeling a spark; that I'm [b]"too much of a square";[/b]
If they break up with me after a longer period/relationship: "too nice"; not taking the lead like they want to have in the relationship; not masculine enough; too boring.

I'm looking for a relationship that leads to marriage or if she doesn't want to get married a long-term monogamous exclusive relationship. Not wanting a poly thing or situationship. (may seem redundant, but its happened more than once that they want to add me to a roster or add a third person).[/quote]

I find this statement so confusing. You ride BMX bikes and have tattoos. To me, you’re out there, nice lawyer notwithstanding. I’d talk to a social skills coach. If nothing makes sense, it’s usually that. I wish you the best.[/quote]

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