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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looking like Curtis Mayfield, are tattoos even visible on your skin?

Yes, they are black and gray American traditional so they are quite bold and “readable” even from a bit of a distance away.

Would be interesting to price out what a complete body suit removal would cost. Not going to remove them but iam curious how that would be priced is all.

Ugh, are any of them pinup girls? That would be a major turn off for most women.

Look, dude, tattoos+BMX+not wanting kids scream “this guy isn’t serious and will cheat” whether or not you actually do. Every woman has dated the tattooed punk dude who drank too much, cheated, stole money, whatever, and aren’t eager to do it again.

You’re too much for the Type A, professional women. You could do fine with artsy women, but you’re too cold, unemotional, and judgmental for them.

Something has to give. If you won’t budge on the tattoos, fine, but you’re going to have to learn to be emotionally available rather than getting frustrated by women having emotions. You’re going to have to stop treating dates like job interviews. Probably you’ll need some form of therapy to figure out why you’re like that.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious to hear why women broke up with you in the past. I don’t think you’ve answered that yet.

But, your biggest issue is the no kids thing. Most women want kids. It’s not a good idea to have them if you don’t want them, but you’ll likely have to stick to dating women who already have older kids and don’t want more.

I’m guessing that right now you’re dating mostly mid-late 30s women, and those women are on a time crunch to get married and have kids. If you don’t want them, they’re going to reject you pretty early on.

If they break up with me early on: not feeling it; not feeling a spark; that I'm "too much of a square";
If they break up with me after a longer period/relationship: "too nice"; not taking the lead like they want to have in the relationship; not masculine enough; too boring.

I'm looking for a relationship that leads to marriage or if she doesn't want to get married a long-term monogamous exclusive relationship. Not wanting a poly thing or situationship. (may seem redundant, but its happened more than once that they want to add me to a roster or add a third person).

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious to hear why women broke up with you in the past. I don’t think you’ve answered that yet.

But, your biggest issue is the no kids thing. Most women want kids. It’s not a good idea to have them if you don’t want them, but you’ll likely have to stick to dating women who already have older kids and don’t want more.

I’m guessing that right now you’re dating mostly mid-late 30s women, and those women are on a time crunch to get married and have kids. If you don’t want them, they’re going to reject you pretty early on.

If they break up with me early on: not feeling it; not feeling a spark; that I'm "too much of a square";
If they break up with me after a longer period/relationship: "too nice"; not taking the lead like they want to have in the relationship; not masculine enough; too boring.

I'm looking for a relationship that leads to marriage or if she doesn't want to get married a long-term monogamous exclusive relationship. Not wanting a poly thing or situationship. (may seem redundant, but its happened more than once that they want to add me to a roster or add a third person).

Anonymous wrote:So you are 5'6", a biker, covered in tattoos, not conventionally handsome, not really open to kids even though your dating age range for women are child bearing years, not really open to blondes, not really open to black women....

You have too many dings against you to be this picky.

Expand your dating age range to consider women in their 50s who have adult kids. And you are in no position to find blondes unattractive. Look at them a little longer, say a chant, and change your mind. You cannot afford to eliminate any woman from the dating pool because there are too many strikes against you.

You don't want emotions, you don't want children, and you want as little time together as possible. Women usually go for taller, more conventionally attractive guys for these kinds of relationships. They tend to go for guys like you when they are very loving and very kind and parent material.

Stop cos playing Idris Elba or Jason Maoma when you look like Chris Rock with tattoos. You have to work harder for tussy.

Another option: I have a friend who is similar in looks to you without tattoos and without money. He has been married 4 times -- he marries foreign women, and they last 3-4 years. Then he marries another. The women are way more attractive than he is, and there is usually no drama when they divorce. No kids though. He is very hapoy with his life. So perhaps get a vasectomy and become a passport bro.

Anonymous wrote:I’m curious to hear why women broke up with you in the past. I don’t think you’ve answered that yet.

But, your biggest issue is the no kids thing. Most women want kids. It’s not a good idea to have them if you don’t want them, but you’ll likely have to stick to dating women who already have older kids and don’t want more.

I’m guessing that right now you’re dating mostly mid-late 30s women, and those women are on a time crunch to get married and have kids. If you don’t want them, they’re going to reject you pretty early on.

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Anonymous wrote:Let’s say I wanted to meet a tallish lawyer with tattoos where would I find a guy like that in the wild on a Sunday afternoon? Just curious.

You dont have to answer that but 👀

What kind of lawyer? Corporate lawyer? You can find him in his home office, probably.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? Have you ever been married?

I’m not the OP but he has answered these questions many times.

He has no kids and doesn’t want kids.

He has never been married.

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? Have you ever been married?

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Anonymous wrote:So you are 5'6", a biker, covered in tattoos, not conventionally handsome, not really open to kids even though your dating age range for women are child bearing years, not really open to blondes, not really open to black women....

You have too many dings against you to be this picky.

Expand your dating age range to consider women in their 50s who have adult kids. And you are in no position to find blondes unattractive. Look at them a little longer, say a chant, and change your mind. You cannot afford to eliminate any woman from the dating pool because there are too many strikes against you.

You don't want emotions, you don't want children, and you want as little time together as possible. Women usually go for taller, more conventionally attractive guys for these kinds of relationships. They tend to go for guys like you when they are very loving and very kind and parent material.

Stop cos playing Idris Elba or Jason Maoma when you look like Chris Rock with tattoos. You have to work harder for tussy.

Another option: I have a friend who is similar in looks to you without tattoos and without money. He has been married 4 times -- he marries foreign women, and they last 3-4 years. Then he marries another. The women are way more attractive than he is, and there is usually no drama when they divorce. No kids though. He is very hapoy with his life. So perhaps get a vasectomy and become a passport bro.

Appreciate the tips. To clarify, not against dating blonde women or black women. Was expressing my past history with the black women that I have dated and whether or not I was going for blondes with big boobs exclusively.

I thought that the more flexible dates were the way to go but I’m hearing folks when they offer the cons or at least the cons in perspective. I think splitting the baby so that neither me nor the other person on the date feel obligated to stick around if we’re not vibing is key. I’ll think about this more.

Not trying to cosplay anyone. Don’t know where that comes from.

Anonymous wrote:So you are 5'6", a biker, covered in tattoos, not conventionally handsome, not really open to kids even though your dating age range for women are child bearing years, not really open to blondes, not really open to black women....

You have too many dings against you to be this picky.

Expand your dating age range to consider women in their 50s who have adult kids. And you are in no position to find blondes unattractive. Look at them a little longer, say a chant, and change your mind. You cannot afford to eliminate any woman from the dating pool because there are too many strikes against you.

You don't want emotions, you don't want children, and you want as little time together as possible. Women usually go for taller, more conventionally attractive guys for these kinds of relationships. They tend to go for guys like you when they are very loving and very kind and parent material.

Stop cos playing Idris Elba or Jason Maoma when you look like Chris Rock with tattoos. You have to work harder for tussy.

Another option: I have a friend who is similar in looks to you without tattoos and without money. He has been married 4 times -- he marries foreign women, and they last 3-4 years. Then he marries another. The women are way more attractive than he is, and there is usually no drama when they divorce. No kids though. He is very hapoy with his life. So perhaps get a vasectomy and become a passport bro.