Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "How would you divide the money in this divorce scenario?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are overcomplicating a simple issue. This is easy. 1. Marital property is split 50/50 or equitably. 2. Premarital property remains separate unless comingled but the burden of proof is in the party arguing that any property is seperate to prove it. 3. Inheritances that have been received are separate property unless commingled. 4. Inheritances that have not been received don’t exist. They are irrelevant because they have no value. Divide the assets accordingly. [/quote] Agreed. Lawyers will tell you to go after what you are entitled to under the law, because that’s their job. The law, however, is not designed to preserve goodwill or promote amicability. So, if you are in the rare case where you both want to be decent people, then you will need to resist the temptation to go after what you “could” get. Still, you should picture how you would feel if you settled like this and then he turned into an a*hole the next day. Would you feel cheated or would you still feel like you came out OK with what was fair? It is a useful thought experiment.[/quote] It’s not about going after and getting something, it’s about keeping her share of what is already hers. [/quote] That’s fine, but I know many people who suffer through many years of legal hell and misery to “keep what’s theirs” and it’s not a great way to spend your good years.[/quote] That would be on her STBX then, if he wants to make her life legal hell over what's hers by law[/quote] She wants what’s his, not just during marriage. [/quote] Your shriveled incel brain is just making things up now. "Woman divorcing! Woman bad! Woman greedy!" Maybe try reading the posts you're responding to first.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics