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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone keeps going back to what OP knew pr didn’t know at 18 - but she’s not 18 any more. Her mother had been paying this loan since it was taken out, while OP has gone one to have a career, get married, build a decent HII and have 2 children while her mother is still paying that loan. And there is no way OP didn’t know that loan was still being paid.

I find it weird that you’re holding your mother, who sounds like she tried to help you, solely responsible, and not your dad at all. And the fact that she wants to keep her HOME should have nothing to do with your student loans after you’ve had time to build a career, family, and life and should have been helloing with those loans anyway. Divorce is always a hardship - it didn’t occur to you to check in within your mother?

YoU sound trolly or really cold, although there’s enough people in here that seem to agree with you. [/quote]

That's what a loan agreement is-it's an agreement with the party who signed it, not all the other family members.   Who knows if there's a dad in the picture?  OP didn't mention one, so not sure why you're fixating on that.  Parental loans are just that, parental loans.  OP is responsible for whatever student loans they took, not for the ones his mother suddenly decided she couldn't pay.     [/quote]

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