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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think for the men it’s mental? Like wow she’s so good looking, feels so great. I’m the man thing. And sex is mental after the basic is met. But no early 20s girl is good in bed unless she’s slept with a lot of people.

Same with young men. They just don’t have enough experience. Late 20s is different. I’m a 37 woman and I think men in late 20s to early 30s are so hot and good in bed.

20 years is a huge gap and it’s only successful when there is a lot of money involved LONG term. Short term anyone of any age gets together even when it doesn’t make sense. [/quote]

Yeah maybe it is a mental thing. As a 40 year old female dating men in their 40s, most of them have been with a 20ish year old recently. It’s hard because they all have said how great the sex is and when I ask why or what it is that they did that made it so good I have never really been able to get an answer. [/quote]

Maybe the older men are divorced so they’re sex-starved? Younger women have higher libidos and are probably less demanding in bed because as many have mentioned, it takes a decade or so of being sexually actively to be skilled in bed and understand one’s own body as a woman. Maybe they’re more compliant and willing and have better bodies?

I don’t know. Over 40 and I’m having the best sex of my life with my current partner who is also in his 40s. [/quote]

Men don’t care of skills. It’s just about having a great body, being relaxed and submissive in all senses, if you know what I mean  and super wet P. 
I’m F in my 40s lived with 11 yo exH. My partner post divorce is 1 year younger than myself. It’s a totally different feel to have smooth hard body next to me vs an older man. 
I presume men feel the same with 10+ younger women. There are women in 40s and 50s who are great looking and have great bodies. But it takes over 10 hrs of sports and a strict diet post 40. I date men in my 40s but according to them they went out with me because my body was a “match” with early 30s women they dated before. I was modeling so I do have an actual “swimsuit illustrated” figure. 
Men in 40s don’t go for standard looking, even minimally imperfect 40s women. Maybe if you meet someone through RL connection it happens but OLD is the market based on looks.
On the opposite - if a woman his age  looks amazing  a man would  pick her for a serious relationship over a much younger woman. Because they think if she “lasted” through 40s, she’ll continue aging well. And men don’t like to be used for money - older women are often more financially stable. [/quote]

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