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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you just want to be DINKs then who cares.  Also at your age, she might be best you'll ever be able to do.  Let's say she hits 30 and all her friends start hitting their major life milestones and you're still not ready, but she is, and dumps you.  You're now back in the dating pool with a different, older crowd of women.[/quote]

OP here. Most older men always find younger women. They almost always pass up the older women for younger. Not saying it’s right but I think men my age still go for 23-30 year old women. [/quote]

My point is that they are less likely to go for you as you age.[/quote]

OP here. I don’t agree with that. Many men my age still date younger women and I think they can always get that. It’s women over 35 that have a harder time of ever finding a partner because men my age won’t date them. [/quote]

I am 46. A 27-year ond and 31-year old keep blowing up my phone. As well as a 34-year-old. In my 20s, I would not consider a man over 35. No way.[/quote]

OP here. You’re their sugar mama. They don’t want to marry you lol[/quote]

OP here. Most men will f anything. You’re probably just one of the numbers they call. No man that age is looking to wife you. [/quote]

I don't want to be a wife. It is not necessary. Not sure why you think I care about that. (And one did want to get married and I said I don't want to get married or have more kids).

And the point is that a younger woman does not want to marry a 35+ man. They really don't. It was not even a consideration. Just like an older man now is not a consideration. If you make your own money, older does no good. Women don't need older men or want them when they have their own career. Most 20s women will want 20s men. Not a 35+ man. That is when you enter the danger zone.

Don't be that guy. If you love her, marry her. You can have a year engagement. [/quote]

OP here. Keep lying to yourself. Most women do date older than themselves. [/quote]

A little bit older, and not an actual old person. Seven years older is already pushing it. Young women, if they have any sense, don't consider a large age gap a positive thing in the long term. They consider it a fallback option, or a fun interlude before they settle down and marry someone they consider a peer. They know the tradeoffs (spending their golden years as a caregiver to an elderly man and/or being a widow), and they know that it isn't actually prestigious or impressive to do this. The true 9s and 10s are able to attract a 9 or a 10 their own age to have a partnership marriage. They don't have to settle for someone older. And if you want a woman to overlook your age, you're going to need to accept various other tradeoffs. This might not be apparent to you at 35, but in your 40s you'll see your peers doing it and you'll understand.[/quote]

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