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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find these responses so hypocritical. If a man posted ‘I want to downsize our lifestyle so I can spend more time with our kids but my wife says no’ most would support him, many would encourage him to look for a new job anyway. They have plenty of money. She can take a year off with the baby. She can find a lower paying job later. He can stay or he can look for a different sugar mama. [/quote] Not sure what you are trying to say. Most of the comments have to do with how she is raising this with her spouse (cutting off direct deposit) and the contempt she has for him (which is documented going back at least 4 years). [/quote] She’s cutting off direct deposit because he refuses to downsize and won’t compromise. She has contempt for him because of this as well. She doesn’t want to keep funding this lifestyle that she hates (not enough time with her kids and too much stress). Sorry he needs to find a new funding source if he wants that life. He’s not entitled to a lifestyle 3x’s his income. Especially when his income is completely sufficient for a family. [/quote] This. He’s being unreasonable and irrational. Turn off the slush fund.[/quote]
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