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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ironically, the year before my XH decided to upgrade his verbal and emotional abuse to physical, he was diagnosed with a potentially fatal, but correctable condition because I noticed the symptoms. He had the surgery, never thanked me, and was twice as abusive to me afterwards. If I had just kept my mouth shut, he would have likely died in a few months. I wouldn't have suffered the last terrifying months of our marriage, the grueling divorce and custody battle, his still-ongoing harassment.[/quote] Phew...I get it, PP. My ex is a horrendous abusive narcopath and while it feels horrible to think this, yes, if he died my/my child's life would be so much better and more peaceful. Yes, I do wish that for us at times. I'm currently listening to the new book "It's Not You" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula and she talks about this exact topic and how it is common for people in situations like this to think about or wish for the abuser's death. [/quote]
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