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Reply to "Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Haven't read the whole thread, but it wasn't just "okay" with me -- it was necessary. I did not want to be part of a patriarchal tradition where (a) men exclusively ask women, and (b) there's a symbolic exchange of valuable goods in exchange for exclusive sexual access to a woman. What does it mean for our mutual status when he gives me a valuable gift and I don't give him anything? What is it then that I am promising to him? We've been happily married 20 years, fwiw. [/quote]
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