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[quote=Anonymous]You sound like an amazing wife OP!!

Your husband is truly blessed to have someone in his life who keeps the homefires burning + everything on track.

Over the years however it is painfully clear that he has gotten very used to you having a very hands-on approach & in the process, he has learned that you will usually do all the planning, cleaning, shopping, etc.

At this stage it appears he is taking you for granted.
Fully.
Sad that he cannot plan even one day (just ONE!??) out of your vacation.
And no, relaxing w/three young children is never going to happen.

I would try to keep the peace for now just to ensure your children have a nice vacation. 🏝️
However once you get home - you need to have a very serious discussion about this issue.
Stress to your husband how truly burnt out you are by consistently carrying the brunt of the entire family on your back.

Tell him that he will need to contribute more to the responsibilities of the home.
If he is unwilling + does not change &gt;&gt; then you will divorce him because the way things are now, it is not sustainable for you.

At the same time, stop doing his laundry, cooking/meal prep, shopping……everything, etc.

Hope this helps you out.
I wish you all the best.[/quote]

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