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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Start with marriage counseling with your wife. Try to reconnect. Work at it. If you listen to hear and are open to changing things on your end, and her answer is still celibacy, tell her that you're not going to do that so she can make a choice. And if the answer is that you're opening up your marriage, you will have an easier and less risky time trying to meet someone. [/quote] Would you honestly still be sexually attracted to someone that is 50 pounds heavier than you first met?[/quote] I’ve gained 40, and my husband still seems pretty attracted to me. We have a fun and adventurous sex life and have throughout our marriage. It’s kind of an escape from day to day for the both of us. [/quote] +1 DH was previously engaged to a woman before we met( she broke it off to take a job abroad). She looked bigger than I do now ( from a pic I saw) throughout the entire time they dated. So I know my size does not bother him. My weight bothers me some, but not to the extent of being too self conscious to enjoy our sex life. I am working to lose some weight just like I am working on other aspects of my life. But DH and I are enjoying the ride ( no pun intended).[/quote]
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