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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cannot believe your wife would not allow it if she no longer has an interest in sex.

If my husband gained 50 pounds and had no interest in sex I would definitely look for an AP.  No interest in leaving the marriage itself. [/quote]

Same here, another DW. I cannot have sex with a obese person,  I did not marry an obese person. I imagine it's even harder for a man, I mean, maybe he cannot get aroused anymore. [/quote]

What makes you think they are obese? You can gain 50 pounds and not be obese, especially since if it's a tall man.[/quote]

OP's wife is a woman, and a 50 lbs weight gain would make her obese. You can't force attraction.  [/quote]

Not necessarily.

I went from 138 to 188 pounds. I am 5' 8" and  currently wear a size 10 in most clothing, size 12 in a few. [b]I am overweight but not obese[/b]. And I was a size 2 at 138 on my wedding day. 
You need to see the woman to make this call.
I am not saying I look the same, but a size 2 at 40 would be ridiculous for me. My rib cage was protruding back then. I look great at 170 pounds. So 18 pounds to lose, not 50.

Anyway, interesting that it is the wife not sleeping with him and not the other way round. I'd say she is the one not attracted to him, won't you? [/quote]
PP, unless you are like 5’9” that is obese. And unless you are like 6’5” you are very very overweight. [/quote]

Yeah, going from a size 2 to a size 10-12 is a drastic body change for any woman. To try to spin it otherwise is pretty wild.[/quote]

I think you are creating your own arguments here. It's not obese. Like I said, 170 is a good weight for me. IMHO most women in their late 40s who are a size 2 have hard faces ( and they look nothing like Giselle), but to each his/ her own. Size 4-8 looks best at that age. That's what I am shooting for.

I was 176 at a wedding 2 years ago and I looked absolutely amazing.  I wore a Calvin Klein size 8 jumpsuit to the pre wedding dinner, and got so many compliments. DH liked a lot. He thought I was too skinny at 138.

I will get back to 170, so not justifying being 188. But a 50 pound weight gain does not necessarily mean you are obese or you need to lose 50 pounds. You may need to lose 20, which is not that difficult to lose. You can gain some weight as you age and look great.

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