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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cannot believe your wife would not allow it if she no longer has an interest in sex.

If my husband gained 50 pounds and had no interest in sex I would definitely look for an AP.  No interest in leaving the marriage itself. [/quote]

Same here, another DW. I cannot have sex with a obese person,  I did not marry an obese person. I imagine it's even harder for a man, I mean, maybe he cannot get aroused anymore. [/quote]

What makes you think they are obese? You can gain 50 pounds and not be obese, especially since if it's a tall man.[/quote]

OP's wife is a woman, and a 50 lbs weight gain would make her obese. You can't force attraction.  [/quote]

Not necessarily.

I went from 138 to 188 pounds. I am 5' 8" and  currently wear a size 10 in most clothing, size 12 in a few. [b]I am overweight but not obese[/b]. And I was a size 2 at 138 on my wedding day. 
You need to see the woman to make this call.
I am not saying I look the same, but a size 2 at 40 would be ridiculous for me. My rib cage was protruding back then. I look great at 170 pounds. So 18 pounds to lose, not 50.

Anyway, interesting that it is the wife not sleeping with him and not the other way round. I'd say she is the one not attracted to him, won't you? [/quote]
PP, unless you are like 5’9” that is obese. And unless you are like 6’5” you are very very overweight. [/quote]

Did you create your own BMI calculator? It's not obese.[/quote]

Technically true -- it's overweight and right on the cusp of obese according to the official government BMI standard. But the government doesn't have a monopoly on the definition of obese. [/quote]

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