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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a majority would given the opportunity. I work with mostly men and travel for work and the ones that get the opportunity easily presented to them while on business usually take it. I know I could cheat with several of my coworkers if I wanted and I am sure their wives would not be happy with how close some of them are to me.[/quote] Here's the key thing, which this thread has largely ignored: what [u]exactly[/u] is meant by a married man being "given an opportunity" to cheat. So let us clarify: a married man is [u]given an opportunity[/u] to cheat when a woman actively and un-ambiguously comes on to him for sex. As PP (a female) observed, several of her her male co-workers have (in various ways) actively "come on to her" for sex, such that she is certain that all she needs to do is say Yes. THAT my friends is opportunity! And most women are literally swimming in this kind of opportunity on a daily basis and have absolutely NO IDEA how rare this kind of opportunity is for a man. Let's be honest... what percentage of married men ever (and I literally mean EVER) have a woman [u]actively come on to him for sex[/u] without HIM actively pursuing her first? Single digits. Do we really need a thread discussing a single digit percentage of married men?[/quote] Being away on travel at a conference with booze and a flirty environment is enough. The women doesn't necessarily need to make the move. Is it news to you that men are more forward and men and women signal interest in different ways, with women typically being far more subtle?[/quote] So if a man is away at a conference, he goes out drinking, flirts around, HE makes the first move .... now SHE responds (favorably) ... you consider that "him being given an opportunity"?!? I would call that him going out LOOKING TO CREATE an opportunity.[/quote]
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