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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a majority would given the opportunity. I work with mostly men and travel for work and the ones that get the opportunity easily presented to them while on business usually take it.

I know I could cheat with several of my coworkers if I wanted and I am sure their wives would not be happy with how close some of them are to me.[/quote]

Here's the key thing, which this thread has largely ignored: what [u]exactly[/u] is meant by a married man being "given an opportunity" to cheat. So let us clarify: a married man is [u]given an opportunity[/u] to cheat when a woman actively and un-ambiguously comes on to him for sex. As PP (a female) observed, several of her her male co-workers have (in various ways) actively "come on to her" for sex, such that she is certain that all she needs to do is say Yes. THAT my friends is opportunity! And most women are literally swimming in this kind of opportunity on a daily basis and have absolutely NO IDEA how rare this kind of opportunity is for a man. Let's be honest... what percentage of married men ever (and I literally mean EVER) have a woman [u]actively come on to him for sex[/u] without HIM actively pursuing her first? Single digits.

Do we really need a thread discussing a single digit percentage of married men?[/quote]

I disagree with this assertion.

I’ve known women who were cheaters and specifically drawn to married men. Plenty of women are the type who actively flirt and invite attention. No way is it only single digits of married men who get come on to. There are also sadly plenty of single women who are specifically drawn to married men and I consider them cheaters too. I have never held with the idea that only the married person has an obligation to fidelity, because marriage is a social institution and should be respected by everyone in the community so single men and single women should stick to each other and stay away from married people, in a perfect world.[/quote]

But the women who come on to married men are all only going after a small percentage of the same married men for the most part so the pp’s assertion about few men truly having these opportunities still is true. [/quote]

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