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[quote=Anonymous]I am just dying at all the assumptions about the non-stop banging with different people going on.  That is so not my life.  I've been in an open marriage for 3 years and had lots of dates and met lots of interesting people but am so discerning about who I might be involved with that I have not had sex with anyone yet.  I think I have kissed two people in the three years at the end of a date.  My spouse and I are not intimate anymore so I am de facto celibate at this point.  We just live together like friends and raise kids.  If I do decide to be intimate with anyone, it would be after extensive dating, meaningful connection being built, etc.  and frankly most men out there are using ENM or poly just to bang.   I have no interest in any parts of that.  My needs are a lot more focused on meeting other people for companionship and emotional connection and if that is not established there is no banging happening.    It isn't my priority.   I belong to a local poly discussion group and a common topic is how everyone assumes we are just having this revolving door of lovers when in fact many of us go long periods of time without meeting anyone or being sexual.  Many of the assumptions here are just wow and flat out wrong.[/quote]

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