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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely. He's an adult. You're having a hard time letting go but he needs to figure out independence and relationships and you need to give him the space to do it. You don't have to let her stay overnight at your house (your rules and all) but you will push him away if you try to forbid him to go to hers. I've seen this dynamic play out a few times u and it can be really damaging to your relationship with him. You are basically saying "I don't trust you to make decisions in your own life". [/quote]

I'm basically saying, I don't support acting like a $lut. He doesn't need to sleep over. I didn't do that stuff.[/quote]

Then you missed out on some fun times of life. You can stay over at a girlfriend/boyfriend's place without being  a $lut. How do you think you figure out what you like and don't like in a partner? Let me guess, OP is boring and married a boring, predictable person that she pretends to still like being with because that's the way marriage is "supposed' to be done. [/quote]

You don't need to sleep over to figure that out. OMG. I don't need to sleep next to a guy to know that. What is wrong with going home to sleep?[/quote]

So performative and fake, worrying what the Jones might think. Newsflash, the Jones don't give a rat's ass.[/quote]

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