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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm late to the party with this thread but want to chime in and ask: What makes anyone think you can really plan these things??

Nice to have an ideal scenario in your head but you're just lucky if life happens to unfold that way.[/quote]

Binge drinking through college, participating in hookup culture, serial “dating” via apps, birth control, Plan B and abortion are all choices. If you’re serious about finding a good husband and having children in your 20s, you frankly shouldn’t do any of those things.[/quote]

I actually think there is a strong Christian/conservative streak running through a lot of the hard partying in college. It would not surprise me to find many of the people doing that, also settling down very young.[/quote]

For starters, all kids do not go nuts in college with hooking up and alcohol abuse. And even if they do, there’s a big difference between partying your freshman year and finding a serious boyfriend vs partying and hooking up all four years of college. And the latter often continues on that same path after college.

P.S. you’re not slick trying to smear Christian/Conservative women as secretly out of control promiscuous boozers. :roll: [/quote]

Dude, be less defensive. Are you trying to deny that people in frats and sororities don't get plastered - and also are part of conservative institutions?[/quote]

Dude, I think you shouldn’t speak on things you know nothing about. Sure, there are trashy blackout drunk chapters, but there are also goody two shoes chapters, there are nerdy chapters, and chapters in-between who drink but will kick you out for being messy and plastered. The selective chapters with good reputations are not full of perpetual debauchery. They’re full of ambitious men and women who take their coursework very seriously, value their reputation,  and would like to leave college with a would-be spouse.[/quote]

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