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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm late to the party with this thread but want to chime in and ask: What makes anyone think you can really plan these things??

Nice to have an ideal scenario in your head but you're just lucky if life happens to unfold that way.[/quote]

Binge drinking through college, participating in hookup culture, serial “dating” via apps, birth control, Plan B and abortion are all choices. If you’re serious about finding a good husband and having children in your 20s, you frankly shouldn’t do any of those things.[/quote]

I did not do any of those things and married at 32. I had a book published when it was difficult at 28. I divorced at 42. Stop acting like you can plan everything and people in their 20s must not be serious if they don't marry in their 20s. I was very serious in my 20s. About paying off debt, advancing my career and fulfillling my goals. As soon as I married, "me" disappeared. Not all spouses will allow each other to be individuals. Some people are controlling and will not compromise and then marriage is miserable.
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