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[quote=Anonymous]Setting aside the money aspect, your husband is doing his brother a terrible disservice by sitting on the sidelines and not becoming involved in his care now. I am literally in his situation (with a clueless/willfully blind mother) and that did not stop us from making sure we got involved, set up special needs trusts, push parents to have very frank conversations, got in touch with social workers, and got him signed up for aid and services where qualified. We even pursued a financial POA where my mom was unwilling to reign in spending and help protect his assets. Anyone on this thread who believes OP’s husband is in the right here because he is simply willing to claim he is setting aside his portion of his inheritance for his brother is clueless. He is admitting he will allow his brother to be preyed upon and allows his brother to be under medicated, which dangerous. He isn’t a good brother. Assuming he is being truthful with OP, he is simply throwing money at the problem to avoid being a good brother. [/quote]
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