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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is [/quote]

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish. [/quote]

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married. [/quote]
A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?[/quote]

I’m a DP (one who wears lingerie) but outside vacations or evenings we have a sitter and are at a hotel, I don’t wear lingerie *specifically* for sex. I wear nice lingerie that suits the other things we’re doing that evening and is conductive to having sex when the opportunity presents itself.  It would
Be a chore. Silk pants and a camisole are perfectly fine to do bathtime for the toddler and pack lunch…shortie PJs can be work to bring in the groceries in a pinch. Maybe when my kids are at “we have an away game” age, I’ll be wearing sex-specific lingerie again but for me, the 20 minutes dolling up is a waste of 20 minutes with DH, and wearing activity-suitable lingerie means he’s counting the minutes to nap time. [/quote]

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