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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He showed you who he really is. Be glad it was now and not after you married and had kids with him. Block him and do not look back. If he apologizes, do not get get back together with him. And learn to stay away from temperamental guys. [/quote] This. Please, OP, do not second guess that while this is incredibly painful, the reality is that this guy is no good. He may have had nice qualities - many abusers do - but he is an abuser at his core. Get therapy to help you process the grief, which is very real. BUT DO NOT GET BACK WITH THIS MAN. He will get worse and worse with time. I speak from experience and now in the midst of a divorce with someone very similar. Do not do it. [/quote] +1 took many months for this side of my abuser to show (more mildly than this) and we were already living together and planning marriage. Didn't get fully to the point above until 2 years later and he only hit me once I was already pregnant.[/quote]
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