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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I often wonder why these threads have so much talk about the husband needing therapy to address cheating. The guy did what he did because he wasn’t happy or wanted variety and gave into temptation that was appealing because in some cases the woman gave his attention and the experience felt fresh. I’d call him weak for giving in but I wouldn’t insist it’s always due to his traumatic childhood or that he must be psychologically broken because he slept with someone else. No diagnosis needed. People do this deliberately. They want to cheat snd get away with it. The opportunity was there.

When women cheat they usually don’t go running to therapy. Could you just imagine a man telling another man oh my Larla cheated, I’ve a great therapist to help you two stay together. Hell no. It’s chalked up to an exit affair. How many women who have cheated even declare they need therapy? I doubt most husbands would even consider that as a remedy. The husband files for divorce and that’s the end of it. Or she runs off with the AP and lives the life she wants (usually never ends that way). And the world sees her as a whore. Most husbands get off easy because their wives sweep it up with a therapist. [/quote]

Well said.

If you are a single man and seek sex it's healthy and normal. If you are married and lonely and seek sek it's because you are a broken loon who has a massive defect.

Monogamy is hard, and it's really, really hard for men and darn near impossible if he isn't in a loving marriage. Women don't understand this and I envy them. [/quote]

Try being a married woman and admitting to finding monogamy hard. Quickest road to being roasted on the stake. And a married mother!!? No one has sympathy for that. A married mother should not have any feelings or needs, let alone sexual ones![/quote]

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