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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom.  My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's.  I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now.  [b]I would rather not have sex.[/b]  [/quote]

The most prevalent STIs are easily cured. HIV and HSV are easily managed.

I can't imagine going without sex but you do you. [/quote]

Yikes. I'd rather not get either of those. Managed? You might be taking medications for life if you get one or both of those. And infecting others. And having to disclose it at the dentist's office. Why would I risk that? No thank you.[/b]

Copied the above exchange because the new thing here of collapsing previous replies in a thread strips away context.

The last respondent above is right. It's so incredibly cavalier to just shrug and say, oh, STIs are curable and HIV  etc. can be "managed." Not always, not for everyone, and that attitude that "it's no big deal now" comes with the assumption that one is going to be just fine even with an STD. Not to mention the utter selfishness of thinking it's manageable to have an STD yourself, with zero consideration for your passing it on to someone else. And if a person won't ask others for their STD status and won't use a condom, well, that person also is not going to be likely to disclose to a sex partner, "Hey,  by the way, I have an STD but don't worry, it's manageable!" [/quote]

[b]Which is why married cheaters infuriate me!! “Oh he/she’s married too so low risk.”  Doesn’t matter spouse is getting exposed without knowledge or consent.  And some of these people are married to closeted gay men or men engaging in risky behavior behind their backs (screwing ONS or prostitutes/escorts).  And many of these people are hitting up multiple others to bang off AM.  I mean, they are cheaters.  Really think they won’t cheat on their AP too?[/b][/quote]

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