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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom. My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's. I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now. [b]I would rather not have sex.[/b] [/quote] The most prevalent STIs are easily cured. [b]HIV and HSV are easily managed[/b]. I can't imagine going without sex but you do you. [/quote] You really go into this thinking that it's no big deal and you'll just treat whatever disease you get? There is NO CURE for HIV. While you can manage it, there is no cure. [b]This means that once you get it, you could be infecting future partners FOREVER. [/b]You think that's no big deal?[/quote] You would also be severely limiting the number of willing partners. Many (most?) uninfected people are not going to knowingly have sex with someone who is HIV positive. You would plan on telling them prior to sexual activity--RIGHT?[/quote] Most people don't know they are infected. BJs without condoms are not a 'safer' alternative for women or men either. https://www.cancer.org/cancer/oral-cavity-and-oropharyngeal-cancer/about/key-statistics.html https://www.yalemedicine.org/news/throat-cancers-on-the-rise https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/000703.htm https://www.kff.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/national-survey-of-adolescents-and-young-adults.pdf[/quote]
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