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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe time to do the big M/F reveal? Though I'm not sure why it was so secretive to begin with... I found out my husband had cheated on me last year and it was devastating. He says he has the compartmentalizing thing too and that he has different needs (flirting/excitement/new sex) that a spouse can't meet. He never talked to me about these needs before going out to get them on his own. It wasn't the sex that was so hurtful as much as the lies. Knowing that someone flat out lied to you for selfish reasons is unbelievably hurtful. We have two kids, so I'm trying to remain in the marriage for a year, but my heart isn't in it and I think we'll end up divorced. In the mean time though, his cheating has been super expensive and has caused long-term emotional damage to me and the kids and financial damage to us and even career damage since his partner was someone he worked with. Yipee! And he didn't think he'd get caught either. [/quote]
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