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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Wow, lots of feedback. First if all, I didn't tell my patents my teen wasn't invited.  My sister did.  My parents asked if we would all be sitting together at the reception and my sister told them.

Also, my sister has been talking about the wedding (and party) with my teen for a good part of the past year. She showed pictures of the hall, talked about the flowers, colors, all of it. So that's why my teen thought she was invited.

And someone thought it was weird that I texted my sister about this. Our relationship is basically this way. We haven't spoken in like 8 or so months. We text when we need to handle something so it's pretty standard for our relationship.

And for the pp that said I didn't reveal everything in my OP. I was trying to keep my OP short and I thought I posted everything that was relevant.  Only agree reading responses did I realize more info was needed. I didn't intentionally leave out info.

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You haven’t spoken with your sister in 8 months but your DD has been talking with her about the wedding for a year?[/quote]

Op here. Yes. That's correct.  My teen has her own phone and has a separate relationship with my sister.  Although we primarily text, my teen and sister chat on the phone a lot. My teen doesn't have friends. She talks to her grandparents,  aunts and uncles often. Sorry if you find that odd.

And for the other pp, yes, my sister sent her pictures of the hall (the room in the country club where the reception will be). She also sent some of the space where the ceremony will be,  shared pics of the flowers. Asked my teens advice on stuff. It was very nice of my sister but now backfired Bensimon my teen is convinced I'm wrong and that she is invited.

On some po's advice, I won't lie to my teen, but will explain the truth. Unfortunately,  it may harm their relationship going forward. [/quote]

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