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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s my take: one of the parents is also adhd or asd this the other parent has had to enable, and take over more of the child raising, house maintaining, and schedule maintaining plus “manage” the adhd spouse and adhd kid, thus looks “bossy.” The kids see the dynamic as normal, healthy parent must “boss around” (really direct around) the unhealthy parent and the kids mirror this dynamic and role. And of course the functional parent must become quite vigilant to make up for everything the dysfunctional parent forgets, misses, doesn’t think about or messes up. It’s quite a sad cycle. Especially if healthy child only feels comfortable choosing unhealthy partners who need enabling and codependency. [/quote] That's a good theory. Insightful. I wonder if PP who posted about her 2 kids would chime in to comment?[/quote]
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