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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m with you. Also married over 20 years. My feelings have evolved on this subject. Early on, it would have resulted in me immediately throwing him out due to my pride. Now, I’d be willing to look the other way as long as he was discreet/it didn’t become public and he never confessed to me.

Affairs don’t always have anything to do with the marriage. Sometimes the other person is just looking for excitement, which is r trembly hard to get out of a relationship that has been solid for decades.[/quote]

Are you willing to look the other way when he lies to your face to take her out of town to a fancy hotel? When he spends his free time texting and emailing her or goes into the bathroom before bed to wish her sweet dreams?  Do you look the other way when you find out all the hours he was supposedly 'working over time' or staying at the Office late to finish a case, not only was he not working and you were dealing with the kids on your own, but he also was spending $ on her?  Do you look the other way when he tells her that he loves her?  Do you look the other way when you find out they don't use condoms?  Do you look the other way when the other spouse shows up on your doorstep when you are having dinner with your kids?  Do you look the other way when he decides he wants to leave you for her?

I could never love someone that lied to my face, exposed me to disease and was telling another woman that he loved her.  I guess some people are different.

Just curious--do you make your own $?  Do you still have sex with your husband or even love him?  I don't know anyone that truly loved their spouse that thinks this is okay unless they are in it solely for the finances, cheat themselves or never loved them/just settled.[/quote]

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