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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people are missing that the OP herself cut it off originally and it was his critical illness, and his reaching out around it, that reawakened a lot of the memories. Its pretty normal for that to happen when there is a death immanent, especially one with unresolved issues. I’m a nurse and we see it all the time. The critical illness or death brings all the dormant material to the fore.[/quote] Yes this is true but I think most comments still apply. It's unreasonable for her to feel resentful that she was "cut off" and to be asking if she should still continue contact. [/quote] She seems to be asking if she should never respond again when he reaches out. He reached out after the crisis. That’s why they’re in touch if I’m reading this correctly. This is why I am amused by people (women) trying to sanctify this crapsack man as a father and husband. They were only in touch because this adult man contacted her, again! OP, you can make the decision to end it for good on your end. Seek more for yourself. [/quote]
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