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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] OP here, and I am mystified/fascinated that people are intent on hypothesizing that this was a totally fictional. I understand that this brings up a lot for people reading it. But it is pot-calling-the-kettle-black delusional to defend your fears of infidelity by insisting that the AP and DH’s relationship literally did not exist.[/quote]

I think people believe that OP has a very different view of this relationship than her AP, and has blown it up in her head because she really does sound delusional and like she lives in her own head.  Every post describing her “relationship” glorifies what she believes her and her AP shared in an extremely unbelievable way - it’s like AP knew what he needed to say to keep the sec going, and she is holding onto those nuggets and replaying them in her head years later because she has not had a healthy, mutual relationship so that she can tell the difference.  OP does sound unstable in this regard, and very likely had dysfunctional family relationships and/or was abused (sexually or otherwise).  AP has made it clear she has no role in his life and she needs to accept that, move on and get herself help.  She’s continuing to live in her head years after AP was done and it’s so damaging.[/quote]

Her multiple different threads started on this same topic are telling.  She cannot move on.  She is obsessing over something that no longer exists.[/quote]

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