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[quote=Anonymous]Yup this happened to me. I gave in and my mom stayed in her house while my ILs and others  stayed with us. Not good. I was very sick, bleeding like crazy, having serious trouble BF, experiencing post partum anxiety/depression, recovering from a painful csection, and they were not only completely in my space, taking pictures of me at my worst, trying to "help"me BF, and being really loud as they entertained themselves and others. Further, since they kept taking DC, I didn't really do much skin to skin as I should have. In a nutshell, when you have a baby people seem to forget that for some people it is a tough physical/mental experience. If you have a csection, that's surgery and at it can really hurt. I wanted my mom, not my ILs who while very nice people really don't prioritize my well being/recovery on the same level as my mom.  It's all a happy party for them. I have to be honest, it has impacted the way I think of my ILs since then. As far as your DH, ask him if he'd be ok having your parents take care of him if he had a circumcision.[/quote]

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