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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Move to a nicer area. Learn to play golf, and join upper scale clubs. Make sure your English and speaking skills are excellent. Also, make new friends that can put you into contact with eligible men.
Definitely dress for taste.  Don't buy many designer brands because that equals tacky.  You could also join a singles professional dating club.

If you are far right or left in your politics I would move to the middle, and give a middle of the road vibe. You want to be stable to attract stable.[/quote]

It really boils down to one sentence above- make new friends who can put you in touch with eligible men. It’s really all about your social circles. I met my wonderful and wealthy Harvard husband through a set-up from a friend of a friend at age 33 when I was making an effort to broaden my social group.

I’m not sure if you’ve mentioned your social life details as much, OP, but I think everyone saying that ‘it’s too late’ and you should’ve found him in college are just getting at this whole social circle concept. It’s about who you spend time with, and it obviously can be much harder to make good friends post-college.

Don’t just sit around or get a drink with your nonprofit coworkers. And I’d focus not just on dating, but on making new female friendships. Join DAR or the U Club and hit up some happy hours and events. Meet eligible, high value women, not just men, since you never know who will have rich single brothers or coworkers or recently divorced old college friends. When I lived in Boston there were tons of young professionals groups for cultural orgs like the opera and museums full of really engaged people with great jobs. The Kennedy Center or National Gallery must have something along those lines.

Don’t move to the suburbs. You’ll feel more isolated and down on yourself surrounded by (seemingly) happy families. Plus, you couldn’t afford the really nice neighborhoods on your own.[/quote]

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