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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]So when I am talking to a guy at my kids school and he asks if i would mind a playdate (this has happenend many times), I should assume he wants to sleep with me and decline?
Before you all ask, YES i have had playdates with a MAN and his child and GASP.................nothing romantic happened. One was even a single dad and spent the entire time talking about home renovations. [/quote]

I've been on playdates with women and their kids and GASP we did not get jiggy in the playground mulch with the kids watching but GASP we did meet at a hotel on different days before picking the kids up.

Of course, I've been on plenty of other playdates with women where nothing happened at any time.

What's really funny was the time when my kid and her kid didn't actually like each other much but the mom kept suggesting playdates 'cause she liked me and my son was like "why are you making me play with that kid again?"

I've been in every one of these situations:
- I'm not attracted to the mom, so we talk about banal house and kid stuff during the playdate
- I'm attracted to the mom but not getting any signals she's attracted to me, so again we talk about house and kid stuff
- I'm attracted to the mom and she's signaling interest, so I crank up the witty banter
- I'm not attracted to the mom and she's signaling interest and I'm trying to figure out how to eject from this playdate as fast as I can[/quote]

Awesome, but kind of proving the point that the person IN the situation (GF) should get to do what they feel is best/needs to be done. Whether that is ejecting from the situation, never talking to him again, bringing a friend or other. [/quote]

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