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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]During his work day, you are in charge of the baby.

When he gets home, you guys should at least split it 50/50.  He doesn't get to rest after his job expecting you to not rest after yours.

As far as housework, can you guys hire a cleaning service?  It saved my marriage.  The best investment i ever made.  It basically leaves kitchen cleanup each day after meals.    Whoever didn't cook, cleans up.
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OP here. We have a house cleaner come in-weekly but we still have everyday messes we need to clean up. It’s not much - bottle washing, emptying/loading dishwasher, dishes, and picking up toys. [/quote]

Those chores should take a max 30 min. Strap on the baby and do it. Or, who cares if the toys sit out for a couple days? Your house may not be spotless during the early days....[/quote]

Any man who doesn't come home and wash the freakin' bottles while his baby is a newborn is a loser.  Capital L LOSER.  Even my DH who is terrible at the division of labor did the dishes for my entire maternity leave.  [/quote]

He has literally been sitting at home all day. As has she. Both of them ignoring the bottles that have accumulated and waiting for the other to do it like a game of chicken.[/quote]

Ok then he can wash them - it's even worse if he's WAH and not washing the bottles.  [/quote]

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