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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is a man with feelings and his feeling are his truth and valid. That is all that matters. Feelings = truth. The bonus is that as a man with feelings he has overcome toxic masculinity. The problem here is that as soon as he expressed his truth many people on this post started to denigrate him for having those feelings. It is wrong to force your values onto him by telling him they were not exclusive etc. If he feels upset about it then #truth.[/quote]

all of that can be true along with the fact that she did nothing wrong. [/quote]

Yes, she did something wrong. She was wrong not to be completely straightforward with OP about her sleeping with other men even before she and OP were “exclusive”. He deserved to have that information so that he could express his opinion about it. If he breaks up with her now because she wasn’t totally honest up front, that’s on her.[/quote]

No, honey.  That's on him. She owed him nothing.  They went on five dates before she stopped seeing the other guy!!! I can't imagine telling a guy I've been on five dates with everyone I slept with. You sound deranged. [/quote]

You are a foul human being. You do indeed owe other people basic honesty. You don’t need to tell a guy “everyone you’ve slept with” - but you certainly do need to disclose you are sleeping with other people [i]right now[/i]. If you don’t do that, and he later finds out and dumps you, that’s on you.[/quote]

Nope! If you had any sort of reading comprehension you would have read that she stopped sleeping with the other guy before she ever got intimate with the OP. That was enough.

And if we are into name calling, you're an immature idiot. [/quote]

Sorry, it is irrelevant that she supposedly stopped sleeping with the other guy before she slept with OP. She owed it to the OP to tell him that she was sleeping with other guys [i]during the period when she and OP were dating but hadn’t had sex yet[/i], so that he could make an informed decision about this. But that’s not something I expect a moral leper like you to understand.[/quote]

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