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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: thanks everyone. I’m devastated. I really thought the affair was behind us. Things have been going so well and he seemed extremely committed and devoted. I’m almost certain that when I confront him he’s going to say “it’s just a like. I’m not actually talking to her”[/quote]

Have you even bothered to check his phone while he's sleeping?

Does he have:
WhatsApp?
Instagram?
Twitter?
Facebook messenger?
Google Voice?
or the million other apps that he can contact her on and then hide it as an invisible app?

Does he go to  work or an office every day?
How could you possibly know what he's doing all day if he does?

I think you're being extremely naive and in willfull denial.  You act like you want to know, but you dont REALLY want to know, or you might have to take a stand and that's something you don't want to do.

CHECK HIS PHONE... not Facebook, his PHONE.

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+1000

Why are you even bothering to check, OP?
You don't really want to know what's going on, as you've got your head stuck so deep in the sand. You're terrified of what you'll *really* find, so instead of doing a deep dive on his phone, you simply keep an eye on his Facebook activity (which is really quite sad on your part).

What happens if you find he cheated again?
He knows you're not going to do anything.
Sure, you might "threaten" to leave, but he knows that there's never going to be follow through when it comes to your threats, so he knows he can do whatever he wants because you're never going to leave.

You're not going anywhere... he knows this and deep down you know it, so he has no fear and no respect for you or the sanctity of marriage.

What happens when *she* decides to leave her husband for your husband and he leaves you?
Will it be such a "shock" to you then?

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