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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why exactly does anyone think he isn’t raping her at night - when he has every opportunity - and obviously has raging sexual (sick) attraction towards her?[/quote]

Same reason why a lot of men look at child porn, or rape fantasy porn, or incest porn, but most of those men don't 1) have sex with children, 2) go out and rape a stranger, or 3) have sex with their aunts.   IT'S A HUGE LEAP. [/quote]

Who exactly IS sexually abusing kids, if it isn't someone behaving the way the son in the OP is?  Who is it exactly?  Because it is happening to kids. Maybe this kid isn't but it isn't helpful to the conversation to act like it is super rare. It isn't rare. And if this girl isn't being sexually abused, the behavior of her brother puts her at huge risk of being victimized by someone else.

https://www.thoughtco.com/facts-about-child-sexual-abuse-statistics-3533871

[list]The almost 90,000 cases of child sexual abuse reported each year fall far short of the actual number.
An estimated 25% of girls and 16% of boys experience sexual abuse before they turn 18 years old. 
Of all victims of sexual assault reported to law enforcement agencies
67% were under age 18
34% were under age 12
14% were under age 6
[b]Of offenders who victimized children under age 6, 40% were under age 18.
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Despite what children are taught about "stranger danger," most child victims are abused by someone they know and trust. When the abuser is not a family member, the victim is more often a boy than a girl. 
Often, a parent's connection (or lack thereof) to his/her child puts that child at greater risk of being sexually abused. The following characteristics are indicators of increased risk:
parental inadequacy
parental unavailability
parent-child conflict
the poor parent-child relationship

Children are most vulnerable to sexual abuse between the ages of 7 and 13. 
Child sexual abuse involves coercion and occasionally violence.

Girls are the victims of incest and/or intrafamily sexual abuse much more frequently than boys. Between 33-50% of perpetrators who sexually abuse girls are family members, while only 10-20% of those who sexually abuse boys are intrafamily perpetrators. Intrafamily abuse continues over a longer period of time than sexual abuse outside the family, and some forms -- such as parent-child abuse -- have more serious and lasting consequences.(Finkelhor, 1994.)

Behavioral changes are often the first signs of sexual abuse. 
The consequences of child sexual abuse are wide-ranging and varied. They can include:
chronic depression
low self-esteem
sexual dysfunction
multiple personalities
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