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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who thinks it's a stretch to automatically assume this little girl must be being raped by her brother because of what OP described?  Sounds like he is overly touchy/feely, but it's a HUGE LEAP from that to actually putting his penis in her vagina against her will at night. Boys that age are hormonal- YES.  But he probably has some freaking self control when it comes to RAPING HIS 10 YEAR OLD SISTER.  Like how you get mad at your little brother so you push him down sometimes, that doesn't mean you are beating him unconscious with a baseball bat in your shared room at night because that's such a HUGE LEAP from sometimes pushing him when you're mad.  Being hormonal and clearly too touchy with her at the pool is a far cry from actually physically raping her.  Everyone on this thread needs to take a deep breath. [/quote]

He's a boy that is past puberty and has male hormones raging through his system that he's never had before.  He doesn't know what is right and what is wrong.  If he knows about the birds and the bees, he probably thinks that penetration is the only thing that qualifies as inappropriate behavior.  But a hormonal heterosexual teenager who is in a bathing suit and is grabbing a girl and potentially rubbing his genitals against her, even playfully, and even if it is his sister is inappropriate behavior.  But he has no way of knowing this unless he's been reading or his parents have taught him.  Since his parents are clueless about this being an issue, they need to be instructed that this is wrong and that they need to step up as parents and teach him appropriate boundaries.  As a post-pubescent male he needs to observe personal space rules and needs to learn about inappropriate touching which includes what OP has written about.

OP, you need to talk to his parents and let them find a way to teach him in private about boundaries and appropriate vs inappropriate behavior and touching.[/quote]

I totally agree with all this - and still think the posters yelling about CPS and “there is no way he isn’t forcibly raping her” need to take a moment and calm dkwn[/quote]

You seem to think that CPS should only get involved after a 10 year old has definitively been penetrated.  It's concerning.[/quote]

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